Daddy's sister, Zoie (1913-1994) was as pampered as I suppose one might have been during that time and in those circumstances, but was by no means what one would consider a great beauty. Lord love her, she was tall and more than a little awkward, with very prominent features, size 11 feet, and QUITE a personality. When Mother gets upset with me, she tends to state emphatically, "I'm sorry but you are JUST like Zoie." I love it when she says that, because Aunt Zoie will go down in history as one of my absolute favorite people in the whole wide world. Quirky to be sure, but with a big heart and generous spirit.
Everybody thought that Zoie was destined to be an old maid, but she surprised them all when she met and became engaged to her future husband, Frank Berry Padgett (1917-1984) in 1959, when she was 46. Zoie had been planning her wedding for 25 years and meant to do it up right. They had a full church wedding and reception with every bell and whistle. She registered two china patterns and one sterling silver pattern and got 12 place settings of each. She wore a traditional wedding dress and veil and most of her bridesmaids were her age or older.
As you might expect, Zoie and Frank had no children...actually, none of Daddy's siblings had any children, so Ned and I were the only grandchildren on that side of the family. Zoie spoiled us rotten...Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny, Cupid, the Tooth Fairy...none of them could compete with Aunt Zoie. I'll save Frank for another day. As I got older, the spoiling went from toys to clothes and shoes. Zoie make four trips a year (one each season)to Bob Ellis Shoe Store on King Street in Charleston to buy her size 11 shoes. From the time I was in college until she was unable to shop any longer I went along. She would buy herself three to five pairs and at least two for me.
Zoie was smart as a whip, opinionated, and boy howdy could she put on airs. When I was 13, I wanted to go to Washington, DC, worse than anything, so Zoie offered to take my 16 year old cousin Nancy (Mother's niece) and me up for a few days. That suited our parents just fine and they footed the bill for plane tickets and a hotel room at the Washington Hilton on Connecticut Avenue. We thought we were SOMETHING and had a glorious time. Zoie was a BIG believer that public officials should do whatever they could for their constituents. I'm sure that the offices of Senators Thurmond and Hollings of South Carolina were happy when we'd come and gone. (Remember this also...constituent services will come up again 20 years later.)
Speaking of putting on airs...I particularly remember a cab ride from our hotel to The White House. I don't really think the driver meant to be sarcastic, but their conversation has stuck with me for all of these years.
Zoie: So and So Gate at The White House please. (I can't remember the gate specifically)
Driver: Well hello ladies...are you going to tea at The White House this afternoon?
Zoie: Not THIS trip!! We just couldn't find the time.
He didn't say anything else. Yep...Zoie could be uppity.
More later...
Zoie was smart as a whip, opinionated, and boy howdy could she put on airs. When I was 13, I wanted to go to Washington, DC, worse than anything, so Zoie offered to take my 16 year old cousin Nancy (Mother's niece) and me up for a few days. That suited our parents just fine and they footed the bill for plane tickets and a hotel room at the Washington Hilton on Connecticut Avenue. We thought we were SOMETHING and had a glorious time. Zoie was a BIG believer that public officials should do whatever they could for their constituents. I'm sure that the offices of Senators Thurmond and Hollings of South Carolina were happy when we'd come and gone. (Remember this also...constituent services will come up again 20 years later.)
Speaking of putting on airs...I particularly remember a cab ride from our hotel to The White House. I don't really think the driver meant to be sarcastic, but their conversation has stuck with me for all of these years.
Zoie: So and So Gate at The White House please. (I can't remember the gate specifically)
Driver: Well hello ladies...are you going to tea at The White House this afternoon?
Zoie: Not THIS trip!! We just couldn't find the time.
He didn't say anything else. Yep...Zoie could be uppity.
More later...
What a delightful story! Thanks for sharing it. I hope my 2 nieces think of me as fondly as you do your Aunt Zoie. I look forward to reading more.
ReplyDeleteShe sounds absolutely wonderful!! :)
ReplyDeleteGreat story!! Thanks for sharing. xoxo
ReplyDeleteI love it. Love it. Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDelete(My first condo was right behind that hotel.) :)
Oh I love this story even more than I had hoped I would.
ReplyDeleteOh no, I was so into the story & it stopped! Please continue, this is wonderful! ☺ diane
ReplyDeleteI couldn't stop reading! What a fantastic Aunt! I can't wait to read more!
ReplyDeleteA great story and I look forward to the next part. Will also tell my oldest daughter about this so she can read for herself; I know she's going to say that your Aunt Zoie is so like her Aunt Elma... and both with size 11 shoes!
ReplyDeleteOh, I LOVE Aunt Zoie. Can't wait to hear more.
ReplyDeleteHave a great day!
Belle
More Zoie stories, please! I so enjoy reading about your family. You maintain a good sense of humor when dealing with everyone. I so need help in that area, so I am hoping if I rub my monitor three while I read, that your wisdom can be virtually imparted.
ReplyDeleteMy 16 year old daughter is on a class trip to Washington, DC. From her texts this morning, she is having a lot of fun.
I totally enjoyed learning about your aunt! What an amazing person!!! I love the picture too of the old time pajamas... reminds me of my grandma's when I'd spend the night with her!
ReplyDeleteI LOVE your Aunt Zoie and did not even know her. I remember (very fondly) shoppng at Bob Ellis when I was a (5 yr) student at C of C...best place in town to buy your Bass Weejuns and your Aigner pumps.
ReplyDeleteContinue telling your stories PLEASE I love them!
Thanks for sharing this! Your aunt sounds like she was an amazing lady. I like that tea story. What a witty response.
ReplyDeleteI love it! Makes me hope that I can leave a great impression like that on my nieces.
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She sounds like a pistol. And a wonderful Aunt to boot.
ReplyDeleteGreat story! Reminds me of some of my older and sassy relatives. Plus I love the word 'uppity'! :-)
ReplyDeleteWhat a pistol...
ReplyDeleteI love a woman who loves her shoes....
Oh, I love this story! Sounds like your aunt was quite spunky!! I like that!
ReplyDelete~Beth
What a great story...it's the ladies like you Aunt Zoie who make those special memories for us! I just love her comment to the cab driver. That sounds like something I would say!
ReplyDeleteLike everyone else...I love this story! You are definitely a Southern Belle! Don't take this the wrong way, but I felt like I was listening to my Mother tell a story from her past. Seems like extended families were more connected back then! I love it!
ReplyDeleteI'm riveted. What a special woman. My eyes welled up with tears at times.
ReplyDeleteWhat a blessing she is to you.
Looking forward to more...
This was a wonderful story. Who could not love Aunt Zoie. You were lucky to have her in your life. I love a woman that speaks her mind! LOL I do too!
ReplyDeleteThe fact that you could even understand the cab driver amazes me.
ReplyDeleteI can't wait to hear the next "Aunt Zoie" story.