Sunday, February 21, 2010

Things Always Look Better in the Morning...

THANK YOU, my friends, for your sweet comments. I very keenly feel your support and, as I remarked to several people this morning, there is no DOUBT that this blog and the friends I've made through it are wonderful blessings in my life.

Part of my problem is that I am a first class WORLD class control freak. And since I've had to admit that I am human (thanks Kathy...LOL), I therefore have to admit that I don't have all of the answers.

Now I KNOW that y'all thought that I DID have all of the answers so for heaven's sake, don't go abandoning me now that I've confessed that I'm a mere mortal!

Here's how things look today. Hank took Ned back hoome this morning and I joined them by telephone. I'm told that Ned appeared to be awfully ashamed (I hope so) and hung his head low. He apologized to everybody and then we discussed some possible reasons for this behavior...he's lived at Aldersgate almost a year and has never acted out. For some reason, his stress level skyrocketed...

A new resident moved in a month or so ago, so I wonder if perhaps that extra person getting some of the attention might have been a factor. Mr. Herbert and Miss Nell thought about the fact that he's had a cold for about three weeks that turned into bronchitis. He's been on cough medicine and a strong antibiotic. Maybe that had him edgy...I know that decongestants surely make me feel jumpy. I also wondered about what he's watching on the TV in his room, but they say that he's a Disney Channel fan all the way.

Hank wonders if perhaps Ned doesn't sleep well. They've told us from the beginning that he sits up in his bed with his Bible in his lap, sometimes until 1 AM....BUT...he doesn't get up until about 9 AM, so if he actually sleeps, he's getting eight hours. I have to smile at the thought of Ned and his Bible because Ned can't read, but who are we to say how Ned and God are communing with each other. Every now and then Ned will pass along something God told him.

Regardless of the reason, Ned has to understand that he misbehaved. Hank left Ned with another "talking to" about getting mad in Walmart and how sometimes when people get mad out in public other people call the police. We don't want to scare him...but maybe we do. I left Ned with the message that if this happens again, I (the wicked witch with the flying monkeys), will be the one coming to address the situation instead of the calm and patient Hank. If that doesn't scare him straight then nothing will.

Have I told you lately how wonderful my husband is?


  1. Good Morning, You do have a wonderful husband and it sounds like things are better today. Any or all of the possible things you mentioned could have prompted the behavior by Ned. That's precious about Ned and his Bible. I continue to lift you up in prayer and like you I feel very blessed to have met so many kind and faithful prayer warriors through blogging. Hope you have a very nice afternoon friend.

  2. Yes, your husband sounds wonderful! Glad things have settled down with Ned. I know that can be so frustrating. Hang in there. There could be worse problems. Hope you have a great week. Love & blessings from NC!

  3. So glad to hear that things are better! You know, sometimes you just have to throw yourself a pity party!
    Not to excuse Ned's behavior but I have to say, I don't take many meds for exactly that reason: they make me feel unlike myself! And antibiotics are the worse for me!
    Hope you have a great week this week at work!

  4. Belle, you are in my thoughts and prayers. You and Hank are an inspiration, but I understand how even that can be difficult at times. Thank you for posting, and know we all love you!

    I hope your Monday is going well!

  5. I will keep you and Ned in my prayers.
    I would be pleased for you to mention my blog. Thank you so much.

  6. God bless Hank! And you too... I know God doesn't give us more than we can handle, but I wish He didn't trust us so much! :)

  7. Hank sounds like a wonderful man, so patient and kind. Meds can make you feel unlike yourself. I have been on antibiotics and notice after taking them today I felt dizzy and weird...YUCK.
    Praying for you and family.


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